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Hello again my dear followers and soon to be followers how's everything so far.. I know that I took a a month vacation from writing...Well I should say I need some time off to relax my mind for a moment and enjoy the company of my family and friends over last month. If you are asking me how's everything so far well all I can say is everything is good and nothing to complain about.

So you are wondering why I am writing right now? Well I should say this month is the Love month and for sure most of us will have dates or some of us who are single like yours truly will enjoy life and live believe that there will be a forever for us as we wait. Honestly there is no harm in waiting to be honest. As you wait; you will learn to love yourself fully and know your capacity as an individual. To be frank with you; When I ended up my 3 year relationship I started to discover my capacity as an individual. I discover my inner peace and my true capacity as a woman.


Once again I will be direct to the point here okay...Please please please, never ever rush yourself into relationship. I know you will ask why? and will tell me "That's our purpose in our life...to seek for our "forever". I am telling you this never ever seek for your forever with emotions... If you are seeking forever make sure it comes from the heart and mind as well. Ladies, once again I am telling you this DO NOT BE A FLIRT...OKAY?! It is not a good image to be pinned to. Being flirt is not our thing waiting is our thing. Seriously, it's better to wait for the right person who will love you not just because you have a great image; voice or whatsoever physique that you have. Wait for that person that will love you for who you are. Beauty will fade away but the beauty of the spirit will last forever.

Ladies again and again; we are not ought to hunt out man in our life. It's their duty to hunt us down. Being a huntress is not a good sign that you are being a great flirt and you are dying to be loved by the men. God created you as a princess and those prince should fight for you. It's like a war between men and your heart (May the best man wins). God wants the best for His princesses not the chosen one that you pick for yourself. Ladies once again we have to act accordingly. We don't have to impress the men to like you. Remember this; there will be a man for you that you can impress for who you are not for who you are. Again never ever push yourself to a man who is not ready for a relationship...okay?! Don't be like a hopeless romantic type of person that
cannot wait for her forever. You are not alone in this world; you have your family; you have your friends; and most especially...God is with you no matter what... Remember he knows your name, your destiny and your state of heart; and He created you to be His image and likeness not abstract and commotions.

Gentlemen, once again do your freaking duty; do not let us Ladies hunt you down because it's not our thing okay (It's disgusting and obnoxious should I say). Men, you are given this opportunity to track the best girls in your life. The lady can see your flaws and your weakness; your strengths and victories and most especially will bring the best in you. Men, don't be such a lazy bum that you will be content to a lady who just hunt you down. Come on, ask yourself three times and ask these question(s) to yourself:

1) Am I really ready to be in a relationship?

2) Can I support my future family?

3) Am I stable enough? (emotionally, physically, financially, spiritually)

4) Am I ready to face the new chapter of my life? (Which is Marriage)

And if your answer is a big NO and what the heck do not enter a relationship first. Remember this being in a relationship means that you are ready to settle down and you have finally found yourself worth as a man. (Same as with you ladies). I know some people will say it's okay to shop around and have several relationships.. I am totally fine with that okay but do not give your all; because if you gave your all to that person that you thought that will be your forever... I am tell you frankly you will be hurt big time. 

I forgot to add this; gents I am telling you this (to the ladies as well); if you are part of a group and your leaders gave you advise listen to them because they've been there many times. If they say don't; it's up to you; or so be it or whatsoever that they disagree with your decision; listen to them because it is for your own good. Likewise I have to quote this from one of the facebook page that I am following it says that "Listen to them, says Proverbs, and it will be a garland to grace your head. Neglect their opinions and disaster will overwhelm you." Yes! Very harsh words but its true... It's in the bible I should say. So always better listen to the advice of your leaders especially your parents... If they say no well follow them. Nothing will happen to you.

Ladies and gents to summarize everything up... I should say don't be a fool to rush everything. You are still young to worry about your love life. Enjoy being single and being single means that you can still explore your capacity as an individual. Single life means having a plenty of time to know what God wants us to be, and lastly being single is not a disease...it's a blessing that you can enjoy. Remember this you are not alone in this world you have God, you have your friends and family to love you.

Until here then