Revolving Circles

Hello again my dear followers and soon to be followers how's everything? How's everything so far? I hope my American followers have a nice and relaxing thanksgiving. Canadian followers...How's the weather so far? Does it treat you well? for sure some of us swearing with the weather (I know what you feel guise... I reside where the winter is harsh). Bundle up Canada, don't let grumpy old winter froze you. well another day another time for me to blog. I love blogging what can I do this is life. Life is full of fun fact that we can jolt down.

Thanks again to my contributors who are giving me ideas what I should write on my blog. I am enjoying this style every single time they gave me inspiration and ideas to write topics that I cannot think about. Kudos to you guise! I promise that I will try my best to fulfill every single topic that I you have given to me.

Anyways I am here again writing. Well I should say this is a nice topic to talk about... Well I know all of us do have circle of friends (I do not believe to those anti-social peeps saying that they don't have friends... and that is the weirdest thing that I will ever hear in my entire life). I know the bigger the circle is the more learnings that we can get. In contrary with this; some of us are tend to stick with those friends whom just they know for a long period of time. I should say we have to grow my dear readers. We have to be open to other form of friendships. Let's say you have friends outside the community... Hang with them... Learn from them because it will make you grow as a person... If you have friends that you haven't talk for a while reach out. I am telling you this because in this life we will not learn if we are sticking to our know group aka cliques. Yes! It's good to have them but remember we are journeying in this world by ourselves. We were release on this world alone (execpt when our parents took care of us) and we will take this journey by ourselves. Yes! we will encounter good people that eventually will turn into good friends but sometimes you have to sore to different group.

Soaring and minggling with different people; it a good new opportunity to learn from them. Like for example; miggling with older than you can teach you a lot of things like how to handle situation that you can take anymore. Looking for different variances of people will make you whole as a person. I honestly learn when I start opening myself to know people outside the community where I belong. Sometimes I tend to see other friends that I have who is already on a stable mode likewise they have family and stable income. Learning from them makes me grow. Honestly, to the health group that I belong to I am learning from them how I should live healthy and not just only you have to share the blessings that you have received. Another thing will be minggling with the religious people aka nuns or the priest... (Honest to God, this is the best part of my life... Serving with the Salesians Sisters of Don Bosco...Waaah I miss them so much); talking and minggling with them will make you think what life is and what is our true purpose in life.

Honestly there are a lot of opportunity for us to grow. I should say loads of opportunity. I forgot to mention this; try reaching out to those people that you become close before you gain a solid group. I am telling you they will also help you to grow. Those friends that you became close to they already soar differently; and not just only that they have already experience life differently. Talk to them as frequent as you can be; for sure you will learn a lot from them. From your parents too; despite that you argue a lot you will learn loads of things for them because they already experience life where you are sitting right now.

Like what I have said beforehand don't sit with your comfort zone. Reach out to other people so that you will gain learnings from the people that you met; from the people that you missed out; and from the people that make your faith stronger.

Until here then....

Journey of Life

Hey peeps! What's up this early morning? I guess you are thinking "She just done one blog today and yet she's writing another one." Well that's life of an active writer I should say. Sometimes in life you really have to do productive things so that your mind get exercised and release that creative juices that you have. This is me, writing is my passion and at the same time releasing my thoughts that has been stuck for ages.

Speaking of life, I know some of my audience are in their early adulthood stage and seeking his or her purpose in life. I should admit that I am almost out of that stage but still I have to contine my life journey. Honestly I am still pondering on this topic; but I know God will help me to get through this blog. (Lord use my creative juices to release the right words that I want to share to my young adult audience so that they can get insipiration from me...Mama Mary please cover me with your mantle that my words and wits will be written down according to your son and father's will... St. Padre Pio and the rest of my intercessoral saints please intercede for me...Amen) 

Sorry for my short prayer because of this topic I have to ponder every single things that I have to jolt down in ths blog... I know that life seems to be complicated for us.. Even our parents I should say they are still learning as they continue with their journey. As for us young adults (yay! I am including myself for being a young adult); We are still in the component of seeking and asking ourselves "What's my purpose in life? Why I am here on earth? and Why am I going all through this?" and so on questions that is stuck in our mind. Honestly, as I grow there is one thing that I have realize, my purpose here on earth is to love God and to serve Him wether I am outside the community or inside the community where I belong. I have also learned that my purpose here is to inspire other people through writing. I know this is only a small way of giving other people hope. Hope that they can boost their confidence up.

Honestly I am telling you this; I am not confident with myself before. I grew up being bullied by my classmates from pre-school to university. I did experience a lot of pains and sufferings that I cannot bear anymore. I did a lot of crazy stuff in life but where I am right now I am here telling you that life is such a beautiful thing to hold on to. Honestly those pains and sufferings that I experience I just laugh it out and thank God for giving me another chance of seeing the world and explore all the possibilities in life. People that surrounds me keeps on asking me "Do you have regrets in life? You are still experiencing load of pain like recently." Well all I can say is I have no regrets at all because I am clinging to the one who created me as a person and know my inside and my heart. Why should I give myself regrets if God gave me this opportunity to see wonderful things in life.

Yes! I am still growing as a person. I am still walking with the purpose that I know and reconstructing my purpose here through writing or other things that I can glorify God. I am telling you this; I okay to explore things in life with friends and family but sometimes you have to explore it by yourself and you will for sure realise your self worth and for sure you will make a statement that God created me for who really I am and He made me to be his or her greatest masterpiece. Be open to other people that you will encounter in life. Reach out to those people whom you haven't talk to for a long time. For sure they miss you so much; but most especially, don't forget to reach out to the one who created you. My purpose here is to love and to serve God; but I know not just only that to make people happy and accept them for who really they are.

Journeying with our purpose is a long way to seek but finding your self-worth will make everything estabilized. Keep journeying and know your main purpose in life. Be happy for what you have and always remember our main purpose here to love and serve our Lord through our fellow brother and sisters. And once again reach out to those people whom you have talked especially a friend that is near to you. For sure he/she misses you so much. Keep glowing and know that God is always with you no matter what. Shrug people that is not for you always keep happy thoughts in your heart and think positive. I forgot to mention, enjoy every single thing that you have in your life. Gadgets and gizmos can be replaced but the people that loves you so much cannot be replaced at all.

Until here then

Love will find a way

Hey my dear followers and soon to be followers.. How's everything so far? It's Thanksgiving in America and I just want to greet a Happy Thanksgiving to all my followers from America. Stay safe and enjoy our moments with your family, friends, and relatives whom you are celebrating with. Enjoy your sumptuous dinner and just relax. To my Canadian followers, how's everything so far? We are almost enetering the most awaited (probably not) season... winter. Stay warm Canadians...

So again another day for me of blogging, another excrection of brain juices in my mind and once again I got an another topic from one of my creative directors (per se) to do this topic. (By the way I'll be doing double blogging for this day thanks to my another creative director). I know you may thinking "Is she out of ideas? Why she hired creative directors for her blog?"  All I can say is that; I didn't hire them, I ask them to give me topics. They are my close friends that I ask for topics that I should tackle with my blog. Sometimes, I ran out of thoughts and ideas for my blog. Honestly, I love working with them. Just to give a shout out... Thank you to my girl contributor who gave me a lot of topics for my blog for the past days that I wanna express myself. Seriously you became my brain and I am just your executioner. To my next blog a guy contributor who gave me a topic. (Just wait for it guise let me tackle this okay). Thank you for giving me a great thought... Don't worry I will try my best to execute everything this time,

Anywho, I am writing this blog about how to do courtship... I know that this is a funny yet sensitive situation for other people. Well this is part of our lives, we were born single and this moment of our lives we are looking for our partners. Partners for life not temporarily. (Okay here I go again.. Once again this is only an opinion and base from my experience...If you want to flip your table with drinks go ahead. I don't care. As long as I can juice my mind. Don't waste your money okay). In life we really need to have a great partner in life; because 1) They will be with you through thick and thin 2) they will see the real beauty in you despite the fact that the world is against the two of you and 3) he/she will be with you unti death,

Okay, I will talk to the gents first. You gents are natural hunters of this world. God instill that skills to you. Remember you are the one should be doing the moves if you really want that girl. Honestly gents some ladies have set their bars high (like yours truly) but here's a small tip from a girl perspective. Some of the girls wants to be treated like a princess. That's a fact gents. I am telling you this because some of us are soft and delicate despite that they are showing of their strong will infront of you. Treating them like a princess will be a great plus but still you really need to work on your hunter skills. If you really like the lady and your kind timid... Dude! wake up! you have to move. She will not do the move... It will not good for a lady to be man hunter and court a man, It your job to court us gents. Gents not just only that ladies want to see your effort. Effort is everything gents. The best part if you show the girl that you are interested to her when you meet her parents especially the dad... Dad's are ladies first lover. He will protect his princess not to be hurt from her suitor.  Winning her parents it will be a great factor...

Ladies, if the guy shows an interest to you; give them a chance. Let them court you. Don't let their hopes be ruin because its an opportunity for you to know that gentlemen. If you like him too, let thfor some of them) they want results already.  And not just only that ladies; Ladies as they court you still set your bars as they continue to court you.
at flourish; if not just let them know that you are not interested. Thank them and tell them the true feelings towards them. Gents be man enough to accept the fact that sometimes that the ladies that you want doesn't like you. Remeber ladies, our beloved gents here sometimes doesn't want to wait (

Honestly, courtship should be a give and take situation, if a gentleman likes you let it be. Let them work on their hunter skills. If they really won your heart let that heartchain be broken. If you really don't like him set your bars high and let the guy know. Ladies, our gentlemen are human also they tend to be hurt or dismayed if they did not get what they want. Gents, like what I have said to the to the ladies; we are also humans. We don't want to be hurt and we don't want gents who are players. A true gentleman will stick a lady who he really knows that is for life (and vice versa for you ladies). 

Until here then

Proud to be me (For guys only but ladies you may read this too)

Hello again,,,Okay I just admit that I have finished writing a blog about true beauty for girls but this time I know guys also have a tendency to visit my blog so gents this blog is for you...

I know most of you guys always face their own vanity mirror, deal with you hair, your clothing and other gents stuff that will make you good, Seriouly gents, time to believe in yourself, You really don't have to do thoes stuff because you are already handsome. ( I must admit that I want to put beauty but I forgot this is entry is for the gents out their). Being handsome is deep within you. You are preciously made by God to govern all the creatures in this world and you are being created with his image and likeness. Remember this guys no one is created ugly. The only thing that will make you ugly is how you treat other people that surrounds you. Seriously guys, I am being straight forward here. Listen, yes you are physically handsome and you are like Tom Cruise or Justin Trudeau (shucks why I am saying this) but your inside (I mean your attitude is ugly); In my own precepts you are not handsome to me...Why because its like being vain to yourself (I should say being a narcisst). Remember we are all equal no matter what colour, raise, ethnicity, or whatsover that the world divides us you are handsome.

Remember this gents, your good personality will make you more handsome and pleasant to the eyes of the society, Yes! Most people will say, physique is important but remember this physical apperance will be gone but your personality will stay. We all live once and we have to live in our full capacity. I am telling you this because right now media is everywhere and keep on telling you this...this...and this will make you handsome... NO! You are the only one can make yourself handsome by having a good personality and how you treat your surroundings very well. No money can change your appearance but your personality will make difference in other people.

I challenge you gents, do not put anything in your hair or any aesthetics that you put before you go. Just wear what ever clothing you have and take a photo and put your own statement about being a handsome and put a hashtag PROUD TO BE ME! I am telling you gents no vanity formula can release your true swag it your personality will pull you into swag...

Until here then

Proud to be me! (For ladies only but gents you may read this also)

Hello again to my followers and soon to be followers! How's everyone doing? Happy Friday everyone! It's been a while that I have updated again my blog and yes! Finally I found time to release my creative juices over here. So what's up with me again... we this is another topical again but like what I have said before.. Having a topic on a blog doesn't mean that a blogger has it's own weakness but instead this is how they can release their juices. Look at the reporters and other bloggers; they have also topics. Some bloggers talks about health, some blogger talk about make-up and fashion, some others talk about charitable events that they went to see. Oh well, in some cases like me; I write whatever my mind or my topic inducer give to me.

Speaking of make up and fas(sorry gents you are out of this topic...but if you are interested to read it you may go head. Join the ride) Since make ups and aesthetics are being around for ages; and some of us girls forget that the true beauty is not all about the make ups that we are wearing or the clothes that we are wearing. Instead beauty comes within you. True beauty is not all about the make ups, clothes that we are wearing, accessorising ourselves with big bling or glams that we know its all about being true to yourself. To be honest with you those things that we have right now; it will be gone but the inner self that we have will last for a life time. We only live once and we should live to the full extent of our well being. Remember this ladies you are beautiful no matter what the world tells you. You havet he capacity to change the world, to be the top role model for the youth today, you can be the next celebrity chef, or whatsoever. You are beautiful what every size, shape, height, race, ethnicity or whatsoever that other people make us divide. You are you and that's how you live out yourself.
hion, this time I am focusing on the Ladies as of this moment;

Ladies, don't let other people pull you down, remember this once more, true beauty comes from the heart not from the make up that we are wearing. God made us perfect like him (I hope no one is being offended) and we have to strive for our common good. If your heart is good and you think positively; people that surrounds you will see that real radiance in you. The real glow that the world needs. Today I challenge you Ladies not to put makeup on your face. (Yes! I am challeging you...) Take a photo of yourself making your own statement about beauty and put a hastag PROUD TO BE ME. Do this for a week and let yourself be real. For sure 100% of the people will see the difference in you, Ladies, let's do this let's show our girl power (but not that much) let the people know that this is me I don't need make up (btw make up is only an enhancer of your beauty okay...sorry I forgot it to put in the 2nd paragraph) and I proud to be me...

Until here then

PS: Gents I will also create a posting like this for you because I know for sure you have also the capacity to be you at all cost....Ciao!

Guacamole and Chips

Hello again my followers and welcome my soon to be followers... How's everybody so far? I do hope that you are having a fine Friday morning (for those who are residing in North America) and having a great Friday night (on the other side of the world). For sure I know some of you will question my title...and once more this will be a topical thing again... I should say once more there is nothing wrong in doing topical thing okay. As long as my brain juices and my hands are able I am going to write what is in my mind. Once again all of my blog is based on my opinion and remember we are in a free world and I am in a free country so if you want  to flip your table again with drinks I don't care. I don't care if you are raging in anger after you read this blog. This is my opinion okay. I am sorry if I am hitting you. I know truth hurts and I did experience it quiet lot.

So here I go again.. (so help me God) ...  Nowadays I just notice that most of the youths and young adults (like yours truly) loves Instagram, snap chat, or any social media that can share picture of you and/or other things that can be shared. (admit it guise they are amazing apps I should say...) but sometimes some of us are abusing it by being vain to ourselves (I was there before and I despise it). Sometimes being vain with yourself is okay but over doing it...Well you are making the world know your private world. Sometimes people that you know or I should say (let's get closer) your friends... Some of them will praise you or sometimes behind your back will attack you. (Once again I've been there and I will never do it again). Honestly posting is fine if you are happy with yourself but not that a lot. (Like every other minute or I should say seconds). You don't know that you might irritated other people because they are getting sick and tired on what they are seeing of yourself. (I admit it happened to me also...I was being scolded okay)

Just a piece of advice my dear readers, it is okay to be vain and be a star in your social media apps like the avocado in guacamole. (Yes! Guacamole I love it!) but sometimes in life we have to keep our privacy because that's the only time that you can keep something to yourself and to your God. We don't have to be  avocados that other people will get sick and tired after they eat it every single day of their lives. Privacy is good...vanity well I should say it will cause some trouble in your life.. (for sure you don't want to be a controversial person and people will talk about you....I was there and never doing it again..)  

We can still use our favorite apps but use it in a great way like sharing quotes or sharing a nice picture that you take while you are pondering on things in life. (you can still take your selfie but in minimal way okay) Use your social media being a blessing to other people like sharing your favourite quotes are take a short video if you are listening to your favourite Christian music or any music that can inspire other people too. There are a lot of use of social media nowadays. Instead of being vain to yourself; use social media to motivate other people.


I know this is the 3rd shortest blog that I have did for the past 3 months that I have handling this blog but to conclude everything...Being vain is okay because you just love yourself so much. (Or else you will turn yourself into a narcissit .. Narcisim is bad for you health and to the people that surrounds you). All I can say you can be you over the social media but sometimes you have to keep some privacy to yourself. Once again instead of using the social media for your vanity purposes... Use it to inspire other people.

Until here then

Clase moderno

Hello again my dear followers and welcome to my soon to be followers! How's everything so far? I hope you are enjoying day (if you are residing on the other side of the world) or night (if you are residing in North America). I know there will be a topical moment on this blog but hey there's nothing wrong if you are doing something topical with your blog. Besides this is just my opinion and it's still up to you if you are going to flip your tables with drinks or make violent reactions. I am just blurting out my mind juices okay.

Okay it seems to be nowadays girls are getting sexier (in clothing per se).... and as you ladies flaunt your bodies to the boys they will think that you are just like an object to them. (Take this note: THIS IS JUST AN OPINION OKAY!!! DON'T TAKE IT SERIOUSLY OKAY?!) Ladies, what I am trying to say is that as you expose you body to the boys they will have this urge to get close to you and it will end up in a one night stand (and it is not cool! I am telling you this because I have loads of friend experience this and end up having a bun in a oven aka baby). If you want to be respected by other especially guys; cover up and bring the best out of you. You don't have to flaunt your body and emphasize that you have size 36 DDD boobs (sorry guys for being exaggerated with my cup size. I am just giving the girls an example)  or a big ass that they can stare at. It's better to dress up appropriately and show what you can give to them. Ladies remember this we are being made not to be a sex slave but to be a women full of knowledge. In addition with this, ladies we can still attract men if we are just being true to ourselves. Being true to yourself will make you sexy.

You don't need to wear tight clothing all you need is yourself. Wear comfortable clothes that soothes you. Be real and for sure guys will respect you and like you. You don't have to flaunt any skin to them. Remember this we are born to be respected not to be a trash. Not just only that, you are beautiful no matter what other people or other media tells you. You are created beautifully and uniquely. Girls I forgot to mention this, being surreal to yourself with clothing is the best thing that you can give to yourself. As far as my observations; guys nowadays they are looking for smart (not academically but life/street) and prim looking ladies. 

Guys same things as with the girls; you don't have to wear any muscle shirts to emphasize you body. You also don't have to show your groins by wearing skinny jeans that won't fit to you. Guys come on, be real to yourself. A true man will always wear clothes where they are comfortable and being real in front of girls and other people. Not just only that guys; remember this, You are handsome no matter what you wear, shape or height you have. Just be you and be real to yourself. A real man will always make sure that he can bring himself with confidence and poise (Same with you girls). Guys you have a natural swag in you so release it without changing your clothes or attitude.

Oh I almost forgot about the social media world....Ladies and gents, you don't have to do a lot of selfies in your instagram, facebook, snapchat, pinterest, or whatsoever social media because you are posting yourself publicly. Exposing sometimes your private life will make your life sometimes good sometimes it will just cause you gossips or malicious thinking of other people. Hold your horses my ladies and gent, selfie is fine as long as you can control it.

Just remember this ladies and gents... Being true to yourself by not wearing any revealing clothes is the best thing that you can give out to the world. You will gain respect at the same time you can say to yourself that this is me. I will walk for who I am and I will never let other people dictate my clothing or they way that I should act. I have my own ways and I love it. Be a classy person as you can be and you will be enriched by the people that surrounds you.

Until here then....

Je suis une Dame Sage...Je suis un homme d'âge mûr

Hello followers and my soon to be followers! How's everything so far.... Sorry if I broke my promise to write three time a week but due to time and brain juices restriction I can't update this blog that frequent. Anyways... Why am I writing right now, well I should say base on my observations nowadays, some girls I should say are going crazy when it becomes to LOVE. Yes! Love is a beautiful thing to experience but sometimes we have to know our limitations...This is also same with the boys. (please note that this is only my own point of view so if you have violent reaction or you want to flip your table with drinks that's fine with me this is my brain and you don't control it okay. For the drinks that you waste, that's your money not mine)

It's okay to have guy friends and girl friends but sometimes we cannot avoid to gain crush on them right?! (We cannot avoid it! Come on! it's part of our life... Attraction is normal okay). Sometimes girls as we get close to our guy friends we tend to fall on them (this is an unavoidable circumstances should I say). I know that you are trying to control everything deep down but sometimes you can't handle it right... The thing is as we continue our friendship with them and you know that you fall to them the tendency is you will over think things that will make you believe that he or she has a crush on you too. To be frank with you, you will just hurt yourself. (I've been there a lot of times...it hurts you know). Girls if you really love yourself, learn how to control everything that you do especially when you are falling again to a guy friend. I know you will say its a modern world already... we should be aggressive now towards boys; but girls let me get you straight to the point...A real man wants a lady with finesse. Real man wants ladies who can bring themselves for who they are but in a demure way. Yes girls! We can be ourselves in front of them but still we should know our limitations okay. We cannot assume "Oh girl, He is so nice to me... sweet and caring" and we cannot assume also that he likes you... I am telling you this cause I have been to that stage... It's really painful in the end. Okay... Oh I forgot to mention, if you are telling this to someone else, CHOOSE WISELY.. because you really don't know who will back stab you... much better if you keep it to yourself and don't overthink.

Overthinking will kill you emotionally. Ladies if your guy friend is being nice to you it only means that he love you so much as a friend. In contrary; if that guy friend of yours are making moves now that's the time to think.You should know the balance between nice and liking. If they really like you they will do everything to win your heart. If they treat you as a good friend take it easy girls. Some guys are flirt (sorry if this terminology is kind a wrong but forgive me) or I should say way too friendly and nice. Don't take it seriously girls if they are like that because some of them that's their personality okay. (I am not a perfect adviser okay this is just based on my  experience.) Learn to balance everything...If you have crush with your guy friend go ahead but make sure it's not too much... Like what I am telling you before hand act like a lady with fineness.. If you love yourself, control yourself if you respect yourself you should know your limitation.. Don't hurt yourself to much you might lose your identity and cause damage to you and to your surroundings

Let's talk about you guys, I know sometimes you may encounter girls who are way too outgoing, friendly and sweet. They will show care for you no matter what.. She's just being a caring person should I say. Like what I have said with the girls, do not assume that they like you if they are your girl friends okay. You must know your limitations too. If you like your girl friend pursue her, win her heart. Put some elbow grease and make the best out of it. If not let her know that she is just a special friend to you. That's easy and its up to us girls how we will accept it. Guys, you should also know how handle some situations. If your girl friends likes you and you don't have any feeling to her let her know. Don't make her hanging and still treat her as you friend not leaving or ignoring her.  I know it's way too short for the guys but come on this is just base on my experience. Guys if you like her and she doesn't likes you (sorry I forgot to mention this to you) be man enough to accept it and be still friends with her. Let God work on every situation that the both of you are experiencing together....

To conclude everything, Ladies you can be still be you in front of your guy friends but know you limits okay. If you like them control yourself. Do not assume every single act that he do for you okay. If he is being a great friend to you accept it. If he really likes you let him win your heart. Set you bars up high. Gentlemen be man enough to handle your lady friend who has a crush on you. If you don't like them tell the them the truth so that she won't keep hanging on the hopes that you will be together forever as a couple. Let her know that you can be still good friends. If you like her pursue her break the chain of her heart.

Until here then