Noël solitaire (A Blogmas Special)

Hey, Everyone!

How's everybody doing so far? I know that it's only now that I updated my blog. This is the only chance that I have got so far and my mind right now is full of unwanted thoughts that I want to relay through this blog. I know that I have the commitment to update my blog every single time; be it seems to be that my mind wants to explode right now.

first and foremost I just want to greet you a yuletide Christmas. For sure some of you are enjoying this season with your loved ones or with your friends. As for me; I celebrated this event with my family. Honestly, I am very pleased that I celebrated this festive season with my family and attended a worship service to welcome Him.

Honestly, right at this moment my heart and emotions are all mixed up. Yes! I am happy that I that it's His birthday but at the same time it is longing for someone. I know that I have to stop this nonsense but it seems to be it's lingering in my mind. For some reasons I just want to cry on this day of the festive season but I have to hold it back because I just want to enjoy this season of love, celebrating life and welcoming the king of kings. I do really hate this feeling of guilt and sorrow because it's Christmas. I know that I've done a lot of wrongdoings but I am sorry for that. Honestly, this is the worst feeling that I have as of this moment (Guilt feeling). I am so pissed with myself and questioning myself why I should doubt this someone that I care the most and who cares for me when I am down. Seriously I feel sh*t when I did it. I've should've doubt you at the first place because I know that you are a true friend that I lost because of this stupid thing that I listen to. To be honest ( and I know I am already going on public already), I miss you so much. I miss our conversation, our small messages, and so on. I know time heals but I am still hoping and praying that one day we will have a good conversation again. Honestly, I still read our old conversation on my phone and it made me smile every single time that I am down.  Seriously I miss you so much and I want to see you again soon.

Sorry guise if this blog is kinda cheesy at all but my advice to you this Christmas is that always cherish the people who care for you. Never lose them because if you lose them you will find a hard time to replace them. The only thing that you cannot replace is your family, but the people who care for since the beginning it will be hard to be replaced. To this guy that I hurt a lot I am once again I am really really sorry...

To my viewers feel free to comment below or leave your suggestions for my next blog or a small advice for me :)

Have a Yuletide Christmas everyone!!!

Freedom is not an option its a Choice

Hello guise! how's everything... I know I am kind a delay on my updates but sorry about that cause I am just so caught up with work and I am running out of topics to write with. Well anyways, Good thing that my mind got a topic right now and I've been noticing a lot of things nowadays that most of the people that I meet and talk are chained with a lot of things. Honestly, I really don't know if this blog will help you or not but all I can say is it's good to be free from your worries and hang ups in your life.

I know most of you are caught up with a lot of things to worry about. Most of you I know that you are worrying about the future. Why worry much if you know that someone out there knows what is good for you. Remember this, worrying way too much will just cost you a lot of stressed in your life. Not just only that you will gain sickness and ailments which should not exist in your system. Remember, you must surrender everything to our Father who loves you so much. Like what Jesus told to his disciples "Therefore do not worry about tomorrow let tomorrow worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own." (Matthew 6:34). Always remember this, God doesn't want all of us to be stressed about our future because already promised us a future full of hope (Jeremiah 29:11); just cling to his promise and have faith everything will fall into place. Why worry about your future preference if you know that God is always there.

I know some of my readers are worrying about their future vocation; yes! Why I am talking about vocation in life? Cause I know most of us are in the process of discerning if they are for marriage; for single blessedness, or religious life. To be honest with you I am on the same boat as you. I am still on my process of great discernment. Honestly, ever since high school I happy not just only happy joyful when I am in the company of sisters and priest. I am joyful seeing them serving the church and its people. I love serving His people and I love God beyond anything else. He is my one true love and my one true lover. Honestly, I am free when I embrace Him every single day of my life as a single lay person. This is my own thoughts about freedom but it is still up to you who will choose if you really want to be free or to be chained from your regrets in life.

All I can say is, you have to pray as long as you can. You cannot dictate or control the real will of God. You have to set yourself free and let God do the work. No matter how unworthy you are as a Christian still He will embrace you with open arms. Remember God is a merciful God despite all the wrong doings that you have done he forgive you. Freedom is up to you. It's good to be from regrets; pains, problems, and most especially stress. Enjoy every single day of your life with our God. Dance with Him cause God is a great dancer. Sing with him and explore the world with Him.

Until here then

Sages Dit Que La Ruée Vers l' imbécile

Hello again my dear followers and soon to be followers how's everything so far.. I know that I took a a month vacation from writing...Well I should say I need some time off to relax my mind for a moment and enjoy the company of my family and friends over last month. If you are asking me how's everything so far well all I can say is everything is good and nothing to complain about.

So you are wondering why I am writing right now? Well I should say this month is the Love month and for sure most of us will have dates or some of us who are single like yours truly will enjoy life and live believe that there will be a forever for us as we wait. Honestly there is no harm in waiting to be honest. As you wait; you will learn to love yourself fully and know your capacity as an individual. To be frank with you; When I ended up my 3 year relationship I started to discover my capacity as an individual. I discover my inner peace and my true capacity as a woman.


Once again I will be direct to the point here okay...Please please please, never ever rush yourself into relationship. I know you will ask why? and will tell me "That's our purpose in our life...to seek for our "forever". I am telling you this never ever seek for your forever with emotions... If you are seeking forever make sure it comes from the heart and mind as well. Ladies, once again I am telling you this DO NOT BE A FLIRT...OKAY?! It is not a good image to be pinned to. Being flirt is not our thing waiting is our thing. Seriously, it's better to wait for the right person who will love you not just because you have a great image; voice or whatsoever physique that you have. Wait for that person that will love you for who you are. Beauty will fade away but the beauty of the spirit will last forever.

Ladies again and again; we are not ought to hunt out man in our life. It's their duty to hunt us down. Being a huntress is not a good sign that you are being a great flirt and you are dying to be loved by the men. God created you as a princess and those prince should fight for you. It's like a war between men and your heart (May the best man wins). God wants the best for His princesses not the chosen one that you pick for yourself. Ladies once again we have to act accordingly. We don't have to impress the men to like you. Remember this; there will be a man for you that you can impress for who you are not for who you are. Again never ever push yourself to a man who is not ready for a relationship...okay?! Don't be like a hopeless romantic type of person that
cannot wait for her forever. You are not alone in this world; you have your family; you have your friends; and most especially...God is with you no matter what... Remember he knows your name, your destiny and your state of heart; and He created you to be His image and likeness not abstract and commotions.

Gentlemen, once again do your freaking duty; do not let us Ladies hunt you down because it's not our thing okay (It's disgusting and obnoxious should I say). Men, you are given this opportunity to track the best girls in your life. The lady can see your flaws and your weakness; your strengths and victories and most especially will bring the best in you. Men, don't be such a lazy bum that you will be content to a lady who just hunt you down. Come on, ask yourself three times and ask these question(s) to yourself:

1) Am I really ready to be in a relationship?

2) Can I support my future family?

3) Am I stable enough? (emotionally, physically, financially, spiritually)

4) Am I ready to face the new chapter of my life? (Which is Marriage)

And if your answer is a big NO and what the heck do not enter a relationship first. Remember this being in a relationship means that you are ready to settle down and you have finally found yourself worth as a man. (Same as with you ladies). I know some people will say it's okay to shop around and have several relationships.. I am totally fine with that okay but do not give your all; because if you gave your all to that person that you thought that will be your forever... I am tell you frankly you will be hurt big time. 

I forgot to add this; gents I am telling you this (to the ladies as well); if you are part of a group and your leaders gave you advise listen to them because they've been there many times. If they say don't; it's up to you; or so be it or whatsoever that they disagree with your decision; listen to them because it is for your own good. Likewise I have to quote this from one of the facebook page that I am following it says that "Listen to them, says Proverbs, and it will be a garland to grace your head. Neglect their opinions and disaster will overwhelm you." Yes! Very harsh words but its true... It's in the bible I should say. So always better listen to the advice of your leaders especially your parents... If they say no well follow them. Nothing will happen to you.

Ladies and gents to summarize everything up... I should say don't be a fool to rush everything. You are still young to worry about your love life. Enjoy being single and being single means that you can still explore your capacity as an individual. Single life means having a plenty of time to know what God wants us to be, and lastly being single is not a disease...it's a blessing that you can enjoy. Remember this you are not alone in this world you have God, you have your friends and family to love you.

Until here then