We are one (In commemoration of Pride week)

Hello everyone! I hope everyone is doing well... 

It seems to be that blogging is getting as frequent but let's hope and pray that this will continue all throughout. 

I know it's Pride week here in North America and I don't know it other parts of the world also celebrate this week also. Honestly, nowadays I am getting more disturb that some of us are being discriminated by our fellow human. Honestly, I despise those people who discriminate other people. I am a Catholic-Christian but I do accept everybody. Whatever your gender preference, race, colour, and so on we are one in this world. I know I am getting straight here but I am utmost disturb that some Christians are discriminating this LGBT community. Come on people what does Jesus told us Christians "Love your neighbour, as you love yourself" that's the 2nd greatest commandment. This means that we should accept the people who surrounds us whether they are our friends out enemies. Treasure your friends and pray for your persecutors. Who are we to judge them? Who are we to persecute them? Do you really know their story? If not so do not judge them according to their preference. I do have a lot of gay friends and lesbian friends. I love them for who they are. I know their story that's why I embrace them as my brothers and sisters because they need my help to see God despite of there sexual preference. Being Christian we are being asked to lead people who are lost and astray not to condemn other people. True Christian means living in Jesus way not living in nihilism. 

Just reminding you my dear fellow Christians, Jesus accept all the sinners and the believers. He did not push away sinners, He embraces them like a brother or sister to Him. Don't be like the Jews that trying to be clean. We are all sinners here and we are trying to become as holy as Him and walk his way. I know you will get mad at me but I don't care. Please check yourself first if you are perfect inside and out. No one is perfect in this world. We have imperfections in life that's why we don't have the right to judge other people. 

For my brothers and sisters who belongs at LGBT community, all I can say is I salute you for being you and being true to yourself. I know you are still struggling but I am praying for you and waiting to hear your stories that you made stand for yourself. 

Until here then 

PS: 

To those who are my frequent visitors I know this is kind a weird topic but thank you so much for your understanding

Public announcement

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Annoyance in Horizon

Hey Everyone how's everybody doing? I hope you had a great Memorial day for my American followers; and good Victoria Day for my Canadian followers. Anyways, I know it's been a while that I have updated my blog for a quite time because of my busy schedules and there is not coming out in my mind as of this moment. In contrary with that you have seen me updating this right now and seeing this post. 

Honestly I am currently inspired to do vlogging but I will let you guise know when everything is up already and I am finally finished with my ideas and people who are willing to jump to my crew. Feel free to give me ideas for vlogging. Anyways, I am writing right now cause I've been encountering a lot of vlogging or even shows about people who are being bullied or being crushed by other people. 

Well to be fair enough, all I can say is that (I am being honest here) I am being bullied also ever since when I was a young kid until when I reach my collegiate years way back home. I am totally being pushed aside, called names that hurts my feelings, being hit by a towel in front of my face (when I was in my primary years). The worst thing was when I was in college few of my classmates who really dislike me, because I became close to my professors and other staff in my former university, they called me no brain, teacher's pet, and one of my classmate tried to run over me with his motorcycle. 

For me this was the worst nightmare that I did not want to share to the entire blogging community; but I want them to know that there are kids or even teenagers are suffering in this kind of situation and where they are right now. 

I am 100% victim of this bullying thing but right now I am here right now speaking out that bullying is not a right thing to do with your fellow kids or teens. I know some of us gain insecurities in life but bullying is not solution to put other people down. If you have insecurities in life overcome it because we are created in different ways. I am created to be different way and I already accept it wholly. I am created to share thoughts that other people can't understand but sometimes do. I am created to become an advocate of life and welcome people for who really they are. I may sometimes fail on my advocacy but still I am saying no to bullying. Bullying is bad and damaging other people's life. I know there are pro's and con's about it but there are people cannot just handle that thing. For me as soon as I moved where I am residing right now; I already told to myself this is a new beginning to me and I have to fight the demons within me and spread my wings and learn to soar high. 

And right now I am here speaking out that bullies are jerks (pardon me if I have to say this over my blog). To those bullies out there I know that you may have issues personally but please don't put it to other people who do nothing to you. If you have issues seek for help. Honestly, speak it out to your guidance counsellors or someone what you are comfortable with; but please don't just rage it to other people who wants to have a good life. Remember this we are being created differently and we are being placed in that kind of situation so please be wise to understand that situation that you are in. Take my advice, seek help nothing to lose. 

And for the victims out there, like me and lazyron (A great youtuber), remember this you are created in a special way that no one can take that. You are amazing for who you are. If you have skills that you what to share to the world; do it cause at the end of the day you will feel great. If you are being being bullied ignore them because you are the only knows yourself and your family knows you very well. Always smile cause you are created special and unique. If someone pulls you down tell to yourself that I am better than you and I am happy and I accept myself of who really I am. 

Cheer up people! Spread the love. 

Until here then.

Easter Mourn

Hi Everyone! First of all I just want to greet you a happy Easter. I hope that you have commemorate the true essence of Easter within you family and friends. Second thing is that, I know that blog supposed to be updated on regular basis but being an independent blogger on my side seems to be hard. I have to think my own topic and at the same time when you are working in a industry where you have to be ready at all times you will definitely have a hard time to think what should I do next when you are handling a blog. Anyways, I am here again writing because finally I found time and topic to write.

For the past 40 days of reflection that I have done, I did realize one thing as a returning faithful. Yes! I do admit that I again a pit fall when I start working to a new company and at the same time I let the darkness blind me up so that I cannot see the real light. I am not a perfect person but It's good to be back on track on His arm. Anyways, that realization that I am still pondering on is that being alone in this earth is not a curse it's a blessing that you have to embrace with. I am proud to say that I am single for 5 years and I am happy where I am right now. I know most of you will say "Hey! for sure you are still young; but we are sensing that you are not getting younger anymore. You must find your partner in life." To be honest with you my dear readers; I am not rushing things up. If I rush things I will get hurt. God is still moulding me as a person. I am still healing myself to the wounds of the past that sometimes that I dwell with. I am still on my reflection and journey where seeking the true essence of being a single. I know it is scary to walk alone in this world; but when you have a strong faith, he will not leave you at all cost.

Honestly as I draw myself again to prayers and adoration, I start falling in love again to God. It's like an amazing feeling when you face him in the tabernacle. Facing him every single day after work, it's like you are ending ending your day with him before ending it totally with your family. I must admit I am drawn to seek for more of Him and less of me. I am thirsty as a faithful and I want to serve my God more than anything else. I am have short comings as I continue my journey; but I always remember this that God is a merciful father. He will always accept you no matter what short comings that you have done in your life.

When you start to follow him whether for the nth time or looking to fulfill the missing spot in your life; any fears, sorrow, pain, persecution, rejection or whatsoever it will be nothing. Remember who stand for him no one can stand against him. I am still on my great journey as a faithful. I am still praying and asking him what is his plan for me. Never be scared to ask him because according to Mt. 7:7 Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you."(NASB). He is just waiting for you to call His name. Sometimes you will feel dry but when he let you feel that pray even harder because at the end of that darkness you will see again the light. Always embrace every single hardships and always rejoice in times of darkness and trials. When the devil see that you are rejoicing despite the hardships; he is shaking in fear because he knows that you are not scared to face it. Like what Ps. 27:1 said "The Lord is my light and my salvation, Whom shall I fear? The Lord is the defense of my life; Whom shall I dread?" Always remember he is always there for you no matter what. He will turn your mourning into dancing, he will lift you up when you start obeying him. When there are people who are hard to love, pray for them because they don't know what they are doing. 

All I can say is, whatever is going into your life and your are start giving up, the only weapon that we can do is when we kneel down to our father. When you are starting to be impatient [I must admit I am impatient too. :)], don't stop praying because for sure he will give you the answer not on the time that we want, but on his great timing. Everything that you are feeling right now, whether you are happy, sad or whatsoever, Just pray. He wants to listen to your daily stories.

Until here then

My Best friend's Wedding!

Hey, Everyone!

How's everything so far? Sorry if I am not that much updating my blog; because of the fact that I am kinda running low of topics that I could write. This time I have a topic that I can write on. Honestly, I am on the stage where a lot of things lingering in my mind suppose to be thinking about settling down and whatsoever; but it's not my time yet.

Anyways, I am here to talk about marriage. I know that I am not a perfect person to talk this thing about; but base on what I am hearing and what I am seeing, marriage is like a life goal that you and your partner needs to work it out. Seriously, I have seen a lot of failed marriage in person. That's why it's better to pray about it and discern what is really your vocation in life. As all you can see on my past posting I already talked about waiting for your true love. I know waiting is a hard thing but it is all worth it. Some of us are in the age range where we want a serious commitment not just a playful commitment. Remember we should think that we are having a relationship because we are looking forward to have a fruitful yet prosperous married life that we can cherish forever.

All I can say is that before entering this stage are you really sure about your decision in life? I know all of you (specially women) will say yes to this but let's do a short list of questions that you may probably think twice or even more than that?

1. Are you financially stable?
2. Are you emotionally stable?
3. Have you explore you capacity as a person?
4. Does your partner have the same goals in life?
5. Does your partner can handle the worst case scenario?

These are the only few questions that I can think of probably the real experts in marriage will have loads of good questionnaires that will make you think a hundred times. Women, please before you enter this kind of scenario in life get to know the person first thing first before jumping in to the wedding preparation. Most women do have strong intuition when they are being used by a man. Use your intuition ladies. You might not be blinded of his sweet words but in the end he will leave you after his papers have been fixed (I've heard a lot of stories like this and all I can say to those women..."Women you've been fooled by fake Shakespeare").

I know some of you are in the middle of their preparation or almost on their final stretch, remember this; your wedding is only a one day ceremony in your life where your singleness will be taken away and you are going to be one with your man of your life. In reality marriage is a long lasting commitment that the both of you have to compromise with one another. You are being united to conquer all those tribulations that life will give you. Yes! Your first few years will be rough but remember if you have a strong faith and trust with one another you will divide and conquer everything. Not just only that Marriage is not a game where you can play with it. I still remember the Homilies from the last 2 Sundays that I have attended in my parish and at the basilica near to my workplace. To give you a gist of those both homilies marriage is all about long patience and understanding. If you two do have misunderstanding do not let the day pass, settle it down before going to bed. If you have hurt each other ask for forgiveness never let it pass. If you encounter problems face it together..Laugh it out. If you are angry which is normal as long as you are in the right position.

I am giving you a strong reminder that I am not an expert and I am still single person; I am just seeing things from my friends and family who are married for a long time and I have also seen fallen marriage within my circle.  Remember this a strong marriage is always being started with great trust with one another. Men you can never hide your secrets to your women because women do have strong intuition to know your secrets. Just be faithful with one another; I know love you fall apart but remember where you to begin at the first place. I remember what Simon and Martina Stawski of Eat Your Kimchi said about one of their videos about their marriage. They said that "For them marriage is like a career that you have chosen you have to be passionate with one another. You have to cheer you partner up. If someone has a bad day give him/her a compliment. Always make your partner happy"

(Oh well, I will just link their videos on this blog: About Marriage) [JUST WATCH IT! They are just an example of having an amazing marriage).

I will just end this with a quote that I found on the Archdiocese of Toronto web page and excerpt from His Eminence Pope Francis I on his book Entitled Amoris Laetitia

"Marriage is a precious sign, for when a man and a woman celebrate the sacrament of marriage, God is, as it were, 'mirrored' in them; he impresses in them his own features and the indelible character of his love. Marriage is the icon of God's love for us."

Until Here then