L'amour Pur Est Mon Truc

Hello my followers and soon to be followers...How's everything so far? I know it's almost Christmas and for sure some of us are doing last minute Christmas shopping (Like yours truly)... I cannot imagine that time flies and next year will be another new set of adventures and journeys. Honestly, as of this moment I don't know what can I deliver next year. For sure I promise with you new ideas, new concept and probably (this is only a probability) I might start doing vlogs, I still don't know. I have to level up. Blogging is my main thing because sometimes I tend to mumble in front of the camera or even in recording. (Now I am giving myself an idea of doing podcast in the near future). Way too many ideas in my mind but I have to take baby steps I am just a lonesome wolf running this blog. 

Anyways I know I have already tackle this topic beforehand but I want to re-tackle this because I got into my nerves that most of the teenagers nowadays specially in my own kind (Yes! I do admit that I am a Filipino but sometimes I lost my identity as a Filipino*coughs*). Yeah! I am sick but still I my mind is active in writing. I miss writing and this is my first love aside from cooking and playing my musical instruments. Well let's go back to my blogging; Once again I am tackling about PURITY IN WAITING... Yes! I am tackling this again because nowadays medias especially movies specifically Rom-coms and some dramas airing right now. Honestly, It got into my nerves nowadays that I am losing my mind and sometimes belief that there are still woman who can wait for their man. (Once again this is my mind and you can't control my mind. I know most of you will flip tables again because I am being harsh. Sorry reality hurts and its better to be awaken right as of this moment rather than being blinded by those nonsense talks that you are dealing with. For the the drinks that you have on the table that you have. I don't really care about that. It's your money not mine.)

Well, once again ladies we are met to be hunt down by the the gents. It's not our part to hunt our dream man down and seduce them. Like seriously being flirt and fetish is not a good composure of a lady. If you really want to be called a lady you must know how to wait for the right person that will protect you  and make you happy for the rest of your existence on this earth (I've been there a lot of times and I despise that action that I have done). Ladies remember this being desperate and hopeless romantic is not our thing. Remember this; God is our first boyfriend since birth so be happy that we have a constant lover despite that fact that we are lonesome traveler here on earth. Ladies, once again a true woman I should say we have to act demure and act the way that our parents taught us. (I am not saying that some of their lessons in life are right but still 99.99% are right). Ladies, if you really want an everlasting mortal love, let that man win you not win them. Seriously, in my own opinion; I am still sticking to those ladies who are patiently waiting and I salute them for waiting. Waiting is the most beautiful thing that you can experience in your entire life. Authentic Love equals everlasting mortal love. Remember in the marriage vow TILL DEATH DO US PART   That's the most beautiful thing that you can hear. 

Ladies, remember this don't let a guy use you to be their band-aid of their past relationship. That's sucks I should say (Once again I've been there once and I will never let that happen to me again) because that's not an authentic love its only a band-aid love like a filler from their past relationship. For sure after they use you they will leave you totally. (like what I have said I've been there and not going back on that state anymore) It hurts being used by a guy. Ladies remember this; there is a guy waiting for you out there. He is just pulling himself out and preparing for the future that you will have together. Once again ladies its better to wait than to be sorry. Honestly, next year I'll be on my 2nd year of being single after my 3 years of relationship. I know you will ask what happened long story to cut it short he is not my type of guy at all. I just woke up and told to myself its time to wait for another GENTLEMAN who will really fulfill that vow TILL DEATH DO US PART. Yes! I am waiting right as of this moment I am not ashamed of that. I do believe that waiting is the most beautiful experience. I do admit that I am still scared of falling in love but I have to face the fact that it's part of my journey to fall in love. 

Let's talk about you gents, please be serious about hunting your woman that you want to cherish forever. If you really want a happy ending; do not choose a lady who hunt you down. Like seriously; in my own opinion ; that's the most disgusting thing that I can ever see. Better hunt a lady who will be serious to you not just a girl who will flirt and play your heart all they way and afterwards they will leave you. If you are really looking for a true love, always look for a Lady who will fight with you; will be with you through thick and thin; and most especially will be fully committed to you. In my own opinion girls who are in lost composure they are not yet ready for a relationship. (This is just my own opinion...and this is my blog...my mind...my thoughts). Gents, please never ever use us Ladies to be your band-aid. If you have unfinished business with your past deal with it not flirting back to any girls that hunts you down. Like seriously, if God is just a human and you played with him for sure He will be hurt because you are playing His love. Not just that for sure he will regret that he love you but remember God's love is real, eternal and constant. Just cling to Him not to those girls who are desperate to be loved back. So if you really hurt and you have an unfinished business with your past please please please never ever use a girl to patch that wound. Instead let that wound heal and explore the world by yourself. Be a lone wolf. It's okay to have friends but much better to be a lone wolf as you heal from that your past. (I feel you gents.. I've been there from my past relationships and I know to be a lone wolf.) If you really have an unfinished business deal with it finished it up or should I say suck that dust up clean it and walk way after you clean it. 

Gents and Ladies (yes! now this part where I want to talk about) please if you really like each other control yourself especially when you are in public places. I should say PDA is the most awkward and disgusting thing that the whole humanity invented. (This is my opinion okay) but if you don't have any special connection with one other or you are just friends and you two are doing it like seriously just stop it...it's disgusting. Way too disgusting. What if someone close to you learn about it (most especially your parents) for sure they will be a shame and they will think (especially our parents) "Did their parents thought them how to act proper outside? (parents perception: What did we go wrong bringing up our son/daughter to act like that?)" (I do got it a lot of times that's why I am being mindful now of my actions okay). Honestly, if you really don't want to be put into a hot seat so please just act the way what your loving parents taught you. Honestly if you two are not in a relationship and you are acting like that please just stop it you will just hurt each others feeling and for sure you both will regret it. You will regret that fact why you two did that. 

to conclude this blog which right now I am calmed. (kudos to Ms. Miley Cyrus for creating the Wrecking Ball song). It's been in my mind since ages. Waiting is the most amazing thing that we can do in life. Gents be the real hunter as you can be. Remember God gave you that instinct so be smart and man enough to distinguish the girl that you can share your life forever. Never ever fall in to a girl who flirts you way too much instead fall to a lady who chases the immortal beloved first. Remember its in the Bible about girls who are being flirt. (As far as I remember its in most Proverbs writings.) Better search for a lady who chase God first before herself rather than chasing a girl who thinks herself before God. Ladies same thing with the gents all we do is to wait, let these gents do their hunting. Do not hunt for your man. Let them catch you and be better set your bars high. Seriously ladies it is not a good sight that if we are the one who are hunting for our men. Just let God work with your love story (same with you gents). Do not write your own love story because it will fail (done that I fail a lot of times). Surrender everything to our father for sure your love story will end like a fairy tale. 

Until here then...

La Honestidad es la Mejor Política

Hello my dear followers and soon to be followers! How's everything so far? How's life? I know for sure we are all caught up our very busy schedules and all things that we make ourselves busy at this moment. Canadian followers especially here in Toronto. Bundle up! I know we are almost close to winter time. Same also with our fellow Americans near to us.

Anyways my mind is right now on a topic of honesty. (I know for sure you will filp your tables, or whatsoever that you can flip.. Like what I have said beforehand; this is my mind and my creative juices. You don't have any control with it; and if your table has drinks within it.. I don't care cause that's your money.) Anywho; what kind of honesty am I talking about? Well I am talking about is honesty in courtships and relationships. Frankly speaking this is the most imporating thing when it becomes to building an everlasting love.

Nowadays some of us women are already shattered into pieces after a disasterous relationship that they came from.. Some of them years before they completely be healed. Frankly speaking; I myself had a hard time to be completely healed from my past relationship. I am still broken I should say but I am picking up those pieces again. Honestly, my physical being is ready but my heart says no stop. For sure; most of the women nowadays are looking for a man who is sincere and honest and I cannot blame them. Gents, its better to be true and honest to a lady. Ladies are very emotional I am telling you. Once you got their affection they will for sure lighten up themselves and be open to you.  I know for sure some of us (including yours truly...and I admit that) are easy to fall in love to those gents who are (I should say) flirt (pardon my terminology but I can't help it) or I should say a way too nice gents. Ladies sometimes most of the gents are just like that, flirt afterwards nothing. They will just left you. In other words; they just treat you as a friend that's all.

Gents if you are really courting us ladies; be sincere and honest. Courtship can lead into different (ladies you too, no hiding to your gents).
aspect of relationship. Us ladies doesn't want any lies because we want a serious and everlasting relationship. Frankly, love is very imperfect and I can attest to that. Yes! There will be ups and downs but the most important thing about relationship and courtship is honesty. If you really a serious guy, be fair enough to open everything to your lady. In other words on hiding with one another

Honesty can bring your relationship miles or I should say everlasting joy.

In friendship, you have to be honest also to the person whom you cherish or I shoud say a friend that is counting on you. You have to be honest because they are like your brother or sister to you. I frankly say I became a victim of that many times. That's why sometimes I just tend to be alone or choose my friends wisely. I know friends may fail you but true and good friends who are true to you will never fail you. That's the moral that I have learned as I take this journey. Friends may come and go but authentic friends will never abandon you in times of happiness and even your darkest time in your life and I can attest again with that.


If you are really a honest, true and good friend your friend just be real. No hiding and all of that unwanted alibies that you can make. If you hide something to them for sure, they will lose trust to you and the tendency they will get bitter to you. Honestly, I became bitter to my so called friends before because of what they have done to me. It's okay to be bitter but you have to let it go because you can't do anything. The damage has done and just walk away and stand up what is good for you. Always remember this if a friend ask you to help him/her out make time because time is the most important thing in a relationship (including love relationship).

After all whether it is a Love or friendship relationship; honesty is the main key of everything. Everyone wants an honest human and nothing will beat that. Tell them the truth because it won't hurt and bite you.

Until here then...