Hello my dear followers and soon to be followers! How's everything so far? How's life? I know for sure we are all caught up our very busy schedules and all things that we make ourselves busy at this moment. Canadian followers especially here in Toronto. Bundle up! I know we are almost close to winter time. Same also with our fellow Americans near to us.
Anyways my mind is right now on a topic of honesty. (I know for sure you will filp your tables, or whatsoever that you can flip.. Like what I have said beforehand; this is my mind and my creative juices. You don't have any control with it; and if your table has drinks within it.. I don't care cause that's your money.) Anywho; what kind of honesty am I talking about? Well I am talking about is honesty in courtships and relationships. Frankly speaking this is the most imporating thing when it becomes to building an everlasting love.
Nowadays some of us women are already shattered into pieces after a disasterous relationship that they came from.. Some of them years before they completely be healed. Frankly speaking; I myself had a hard time to be completely healed from my past relationship. I am still broken I should say but I am picking up those pieces again. Honestly, my physical being is ready but my heart says no stop. For sure; most of the women nowadays are looking for a man who is sincere and honest and I cannot blame them. Gents, its better to be true and honest to a lady. Ladies are very emotional I am telling you. Once you got their affection they will for sure lighten up themselves and be open to you. I know for sure some of us (including yours truly...and I admit that) are easy to fall in love to those gents who are (I should say) flirt (pardon my terminology but I can't help it) or I should say a way too nice gents. Ladies sometimes most of the gents are just like that, flirt afterwards nothing. They will just left you. In other words; they just treat you as a friend that's all.Gents if you are really courting us ladies; be sincere and honest. Courtship can lead into different (ladies you too, no hiding to your gents).
aspect of relationship. Us ladies doesn't want any lies because we want a serious and everlasting relationship. Frankly, love is very imperfect and I can attest to that. Yes! There will be ups and downs but the most important thing about relationship and courtship is honesty. If you really a serious guy, be fair enough to open everything to your lady. In other words on hiding with one another
Honesty can bring your relationship miles or I should say everlasting joy.
In friendship, you have to be honest also to the person whom you cherish or I shoud say a friend that is counting on you. You have to be honest because they are like your brother or sister to you. I frankly say I became a victim of that many times. That's why sometimes I just tend to be alone or choose my friends wisely. I know friends may fail you but true and good friends who are true to you will never fail you. That's the moral that I have learned as I take this journey. Friends may come and go but authentic friends will never abandon you in times of happiness and even your darkest time in your life and I can attest again with that.
If you are really a honest, true and good friend your friend just be real. No hiding and all of that unwanted alibies that you can make. If you hide something to them for sure, they will lose trust to you and the tendency they will get bitter to you. Honestly, I became bitter to my so called friends before because of what they have done to me. It's okay to be bitter but you have to let it go because you can't do anything. The damage has done and just walk away and stand up what is good for you. Always remember this if a friend ask you to help him/her out make time because time is the most important thing in a relationship (including love relationship).
After all whether it is a Love or friendship relationship; honesty is the main key of everything. Everyone wants an honest human and nothing will beat that. Tell them the truth because it won't hurt and bite you.
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