My Best friend's Wedding!

Hey, Everyone!

How's everything so far? Sorry if I am not that much updating my blog; because of the fact that I am kinda running low of topics that I could write. This time I have a topic that I can write on. Honestly, I am on the stage where a lot of things lingering in my mind suppose to be thinking about settling down and whatsoever; but it's not my time yet.

Anyways, I am here to talk about marriage. I know that I am not a perfect person to talk this thing about; but base on what I am hearing and what I am seeing, marriage is like a life goal that you and your partner needs to work it out. Seriously, I have seen a lot of failed marriage in person. That's why it's better to pray about it and discern what is really your vocation in life. As all you can see on my past posting I already talked about waiting for your true love. I know waiting is a hard thing but it is all worth it. Some of us are in the age range where we want a serious commitment not just a playful commitment. Remember we should think that we are having a relationship because we are looking forward to have a fruitful yet prosperous married life that we can cherish forever.

All I can say is that before entering this stage are you really sure about your decision in life? I know all of you (specially women) will say yes to this but let's do a short list of questions that you may probably think twice or even more than that?

1. Are you financially stable?
2. Are you emotionally stable?
3. Have you explore you capacity as a person?
4. Does your partner have the same goals in life?
5. Does your partner can handle the worst case scenario?

These are the only few questions that I can think of probably the real experts in marriage will have loads of good questionnaires that will make you think a hundred times. Women, please before you enter this kind of scenario in life get to know the person first thing first before jumping in to the wedding preparation. Most women do have strong intuition when they are being used by a man. Use your intuition ladies. You might not be blinded of his sweet words but in the end he will leave you after his papers have been fixed (I've heard a lot of stories like this and all I can say to those women..."Women you've been fooled by fake Shakespeare").

I know some of you are in the middle of their preparation or almost on their final stretch, remember this; your wedding is only a one day ceremony in your life where your singleness will be taken away and you are going to be one with your man of your life. In reality marriage is a long lasting commitment that the both of you have to compromise with one another. You are being united to conquer all those tribulations that life will give you. Yes! Your first few years will be rough but remember if you have a strong faith and trust with one another you will divide and conquer everything. Not just only that Marriage is not a game where you can play with it. I still remember the Homilies from the last 2 Sundays that I have attended in my parish and at the basilica near to my workplace. To give you a gist of those both homilies marriage is all about long patience and understanding. If you two do have misunderstanding do not let the day pass, settle it down before going to bed. If you have hurt each other ask for forgiveness never let it pass. If you encounter problems face it together..Laugh it out. If you are angry which is normal as long as you are in the right position.

I am giving you a strong reminder that I am not an expert and I am still single person; I am just seeing things from my friends and family who are married for a long time and I have also seen fallen marriage within my circle.  Remember this a strong marriage is always being started with great trust with one another. Men you can never hide your secrets to your women because women do have strong intuition to know your secrets. Just be faithful with one another; I know love you fall apart but remember where you to begin at the first place. I remember what Simon and Martina Stawski of Eat Your Kimchi said about one of their videos about their marriage. They said that "For them marriage is like a career that you have chosen you have to be passionate with one another. You have to cheer you partner up. If someone has a bad day give him/her a compliment. Always make your partner happy"

(Oh well, I will just link their videos on this blog: About Marriage) [JUST WATCH IT! They are just an example of having an amazing marriage).

I will just end this with a quote that I found on the Archdiocese of Toronto web page and excerpt from His Eminence Pope Francis I on his book Entitled Amoris Laetitia

"Marriage is a precious sign, for when a man and a woman celebrate the sacrament of marriage, God is, as it were, 'mirrored' in them; he impresses in them his own features and the indelible character of his love. Marriage is the icon of God's love for us."

Until Here then