I should say this is not supposed to be my third entry today but my mind tells me to start another one. Oh well can i do sometimes human mind is not so stable like mine. I must admit I just woke up but hey fresh mind can make difference when it becomes to writing. Anyways let's all begin (shucks! I told to myself that I'll be writing in my native tounge but yeah my mind is shut in english language so yeah go head let me write it now.)Well sometimes cannot avoid our animal instinct in our lives I should say our wild dreams in our lives. Admit it! Despite you are saying to yourselves that Nah! That is not true. I am contented on what I have today. You are just lying to yourself. Believe me! We cannot avoid it in our lives. I must admit that I am one of you. I have wild dreams for me and for my future even wilder than that; but sometimes I have to halt, ponder and calm myself out. (I should say unwind and knock myself out with nature).
Yes! It is okay to have wild dreams like to have huge house, nice cars, beautiful wife (for the single men out there) or handsome husband (for the single ladies like me out there) and so forth. Come to think about it do you think is it acheivable? I should say a quarter of it if we work smart not hard. Some of it well we have to think about it. I know you will agree with me that today's world is run by money. Everywhere we go money is involve. I get it! We need to pay bills, rentals (for some of us), insurance (car, personal and whatsoever), and other miscelleneous that we need (I forgot to mention food...sorry! ^+^v). Well that's the circle of life nowadays.
When it becomes to dream family, we tend to think as much as we could so that we can acheive it. I should say can we just relax and calm ourselves out. Come to think of it, nowadays we are having a hard time to save money for our future. Admit it because some of us are unemployed, some of us are underemployed, and some of us that despite of their ample income or more than they need it will just go to bills and other things that they want to do. (I belong to this side before) Remember this, before settling down we have to consider that we need to save save save. It's not a joke to have family. I have friends right now they have family where I reside before saying "We are having a hard time to raise our family because we didn't prepare for this." As I keep on hearing this I got sick and tire of giving them adivces (I am sorry but its your choice. You are grown up now and you chose that thing already. You have to face it and that's the mere fact.)
I know some them are happy with their chosen path but once again I am telling you this. Raising a family is not a joke I am telling you. Yes! I am still single but still waiting for the moment of my life where everything is stable in me. Money wise I am not yet stable but working on it. Emotionally partly yes and no. In different aspect of my life; it is ready. Well for sure some of you will think that I am a crazy lady with crazy ideas but that's about life. Life is all about stragetizing. Always think ahead before making that desicion. I must admit sometimes I do fail making decisions in my life personally but I have to learn from it. Remember mistakes are the best teacher of our lives.
So before we get crazy thinking of our wildest dreams in our lives. Think hundred folds or even more. Be stable at all cost make sure you have an ample money to save for your future, and lastly be smart enough to find the man or woman that you will spend the rest of your life.
Until here then
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